Foreplay

Preparation has never been so important. Sex is great but sex with sensual foreplay is incredible! Foreplay is a way to make the initial connection with your partner. Once you have that connection, the possibilities are endless. Not only will you be more comfortable with each other but you will also better understand how to please your partner.

Foreplay is an essential part of the whole love-making experience. While a spontaneous sexual encounter can be very pleasurable, including foreplay beforehand is very important. Why you ask? Let me enlighten you.

Foreplay helps the man to get an erection but most important, women need it in order to become properly lubricated (if no other lubricant is being used). Most women need prolonged stimulation to reach full arousal.

There is no such thing as spending too much time on foreplay. In fact, the more, the better! Men are able to switch from one mood to another with no trouble at all. They can be doing one thing and with good health be ready to have sex in the next second. Women, on the other hand, are entirely different. Women need more time to become aroused; they pay more attention to the setting and the mood.

As well, foreplay becomes a learning experience. It happens to be a great time to understand what your partner likes or dislikes. Without knowing this, you won’t be able to fully stimulate them. It is about understanding what makes them tick sexually.

So what exactly is foreplay? There is a wide range of activities which can be considered foreplay including kissing, massaging, undressing each other, and oral sex to name a few. Remember to set the mood for women; they notice things like room temperature, lighting and ambiance (music, candles, etc.); it shows them you took the time to care.
In foreplay, be creative. For example, when removing each other’s clothes do it slowly one time and rip them off the next! Try both ways since variety is the spice of life. And women love it when you look them in the eyes, it shows them you’re thinking of nothing else (nor should you be!).

Maybe one of the most important forms of foreplay for a woman is the kissing. But don’t limit this action to the mouth; explore the entire body: ears, neck, shoulders, breasts, stomach, back, inner thighs, and so on.

Keep in mind, foreplay builds anticipation. So, when you’re sitting in an office all day and you and your partner have emailed each other intimate thoughts about what may happen later that night, you’ll be running out of the office to be together!

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Top 10 Sex Tips to Improve your Sex Life

Everyone wants to be a better lover and have better sex. Many people are self-conscious about their skills as a lover or sex partner, and this can hinder having a satisfying sex life. Always remember to relax, be communicative, use protection and ultimately have fun. As with every other skill, there are several tips that you can follow to aid you in your sexual endeavors.

1. Be communicative: When engaging in intercourse, tell your partner your sexual likes and dislikes, and encourage them to tell you theirs. This not only flatters your partner’s ego and gets them in the mood, but it will also inform your lover as to what turns you on and what satisfies you sexually. Sharing the sex tips that you have learned in the past can sometimes benefit your current relationship.

2. Share your fantasies: Discussing your sexual fantasies with your lover can be fun and will bring you both to a new level of intimacy.

3. Engage in foreplay: Foreplay is a great way to excite your mate and build up anticipation for the big event, which ultimately makes for a more powerful climax during intercourse.

4. Try different positions: One of the oldest sex tips in the book is literally in a book. If the same old positions are getting boring, invest in a copy of the Kama Sutra, an ancient literary gem that outlines a great variety of sex positions and breathing exercises to prolong climax.

5. Play with toys: If it is something you are comfortable with, head to an erotic boutique with your lover to see what you can purchase to liven up the action in the bedroom. There are several sex toys on the market such as vibrators, velvet-lined handcuffs, lubricants and swings that can help increase sexual pleasure for both men and women.

6. Engage in role play: As one of the most amusing sex tips, role playing will definitely spice up intercourse. Everyone has a specific sexual scenario that they are curious about and would like to try out. As long as both participants are willing and comfortable with the scenario, dress-up and have fun.

7. Experience a daring place: Although it can be risky; many people claim that having intercourse in a somewhat public spot can be very arousing. The thrill of getting caught gets the adrenaline flowing and increases sexual pleasure.

8. Catch a flick: Watching a pornographic film together or flipping through a pornographic magazine is an entertaining activity that will not only awaken your senses, but will also provide suggestions on new positions or scenarios to try with your partner.

9. Talk dirty talk: Many people get sexually aroused when their lover talks dirty to them. It builds anticipation and triggers a person’s primal instincts. Talking dirty involves letting go of your self-consciousness and allowing your imagination to run wild. Words are very powerful, even more so during intercourse.

10. Lights, Camera, Action: Just because sex is usually performed in a bedroom does not mean that it has to be lights off. Many men and women get turned on by looking at their partner while engaged in intercourse.

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Becoming a Sexual Magnet

The following are some basic guidelines that, according to scientific scrutiny, will increase your sexual magnetism.

1. The golden rule with appearances is to be clean and well groomed (duh?!). Being a blond bombshell or tall, dark and handsome matters much less than does cleanliness and general hygiene. The olfactory clues you give off are vital.

2. Maintain good eye contact with the person you are interested in.

3. Keep your back straight. Good posture can make or break your good looks.

4. Smile a lot. To increase your sex drive, an honest-to-goodness sunny smile is alluring for anyone.

5. Let your personality shine through. Personality is ultimately more important to both men and women than a fabulous body. While accenting a great figure can't always hurt, don't neglect showing off who you are on the inside.

6. In public, be polite and courteous to everybody (including waiters and waitresses). Be confident, but if you are really serious about someone, refrain from becoming the center of attention (this can be threatening).

7. A good tip to increase sex drive would be to listen to what s/he has to say. Talk about things that you have in common and don't veer off into a self-inflated monologue about one of your obscure hobbies. Though it is important to tell a new love interest all about yourself, let your story unfold naturally, with lots of give and take in the conversation.

8. Wondering how much attention you should lavish? Don't be shy to express your interest (call, make a date, etc.) but don't suffocate a new lover.

9. Don't talk about past lovers.

10. Be friendly and respectful with his/her friends and parents.

11. To pick up on sex drive clues about whether s/he is interested in you, tune in to non-verbal signals. Body positioning should be 'open and inviting'. S/he should be leaning in towards you, leaving his/her arms open and so on. You should mimic the positions that s/he assumes. Getting someone interested in you is another matter.

12. Light touches are a very sensual way to test the waters of attraction. Brush some dust off of his/her shoulder, touch his/her sleeve lightly when making a point. Note whether s/he touches you back or makes it easier for you to make contact again. Use your judgment and don't invade his/her space.

13. Another little trick to put a new date at ease and increase sex drive is to fiddle with your hands, twirl a pencil or straw or play with your napkin or drinking glass. This shows nerves and puts your date at ease.

14. Make your romantics intentions clear, but don't forget to be sensitive to signals for the go-ahead. Bulldozing ahead when s/he hasn't given the non-verbal clues to do so is really off-putting.

15. Have fun.

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